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This is a forum for travelers of transitions, whether by choice or chance. It features topics related to the wide world of relationships, personal growth, wellness and well-being.
As a professional speaker, author and coach helping to uplift people through the twists, turns and transitions of life, I’m committed to providing connection. . . to share from the heart, gain wisdom, encourage growth, sustain spirits in the process, while traveling through life’s turning, learning and yearning points.
The Guts, Grace & Gusto spirit—Learning to take a step at a time
Ironically, while writing and collecting stories for Dancing through Life with Guts, Grace & Gusto, as its three co-authors, we were experiencing major heartquakes–sheer shake-ups of our individual worlds. It was as if our strategies were being tested directly in the line of fire, shaking our paths, uprooting our plans and shifting priorities. We reeled in uncharted spaces which threw us off balance, yet we kept taking a step at a time, holding to our guts, grace & gusto spirit, until we found balance again and landed in new ground with a totally new map.
Here’s a brief summary of the unimaginable twist which dramatically changed my life and tested my guts, grace & gusto spirit. The book detailing the stories of my coauthors and other women is available in our book and posted in the Products section.
Sandra Strauss: My “never sick” husband of 27 years was stricken with a mysterious illness in Spring 2004, severely affecting his body, brain and behavior. After more than a year of exhaustive tests, he was finally diagnosed with toxic encephalopathy, a condition resulting from a “body burden” from exposure to toxic agents, including chemical solvents and biotoxins (mold & post-Lyme disease) coupled with a genetic susceptibility making him unable to process them out.
As the disease progressed, his dementia caused wildly uncharacteristic and irrational behaviors—he moved out without supervised care, continued driving on a revoked license jeopardizing his safety and others, blocked my access to his medical and mental health care, and revoked my legal rights to help him. Although he was urged continually by family, friends, colleagues and even his doctors to get treatment, with insufficient mental health laws in Virginia, he wasn’t required to do so without his permission, until the court system finally intervened.
As a result, my eyes have been opened to what’s now termed, “the 21st century silent epidemic.” Toxic exposure is commonplace in today’s world and causing a multitude of health problems including brain problems. Thousands of toxic agents are impacting millions with all the symptoms and effects not easily or properly diagnosed or treated.
I will be sharing more about this in future blogs, as well as my other favorite topics of creating quality relationships, sustaining yourself through transitions, going for your dreams and finding time to do what makes your heart sing, even when swept into chaos and confusion, exactly when your heart needs, more than ever, to belt out its tune.
The Guts, Grace & Gusto philosophy is founded upon living life in authentic expression. It’s recognizing life is filled with lessons that can take your breath away. It’s remembering to breathe your way through them, one breath and one step at a time–when you may wonder what’s next, wander for what may seem like an eternity in the “What Now? Zone” and wish you could just get on with it. Your courage, wisdom, resilience, perseverance and other qualities will guide you through whatever is yours to deal with and lift you to a place of greater well-being and happiness.
When faced with unexpected or undesirable situations, you may not exactly feel like dancing through them, but you do have the guts, the grace and the gusto to land on the other side, with grace and a greater sense of well-being. You’ll likely look back at some point and know how much you’ve grown, with renewed purpose and passion. That’s what this blog is all about—the genuine journey of authentic living. Join in the journey and share your insights.
Join in the journey. – Sandra Strauss
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